Does Sex Start In The Bedroom?

Sex does not start immediately in the bedroom for most women. It starts with how you are being treated by your significant other BEFORE "night time".

For example, if a man is loving, affectionate, helpful, romantic, respectful, and considerate throughout the day/week; then a woman would probably be 100% more inclined to be anticipating sex with him and enjoying the intimacy while also wanting to please him.

But if he's rude, doesn't help out with anything, disrespectful, unaffectionate, inconsiderate, mean, not romantic, etc. etc. then it would be more difficult for a woman to WANT to please him and want to be intimate with him due to his actions towards her.

I had a conversation today with someone and his words were "regardless of how I am with her, she should want to satisfy me sexually".

But why ? What is she getting out of it by being mistreated then turning around and pleasing you ?

I'm NOT for withholding sex from your husband or wife because you are mad or to prove a point. But I do believe that if you want your woman to WANT to please you and be intimate with you then you need to treat her accordingly and give/show her something/someone who she wants to respect and wants to please.

Don't be a jerk and then blame her for lack of intimacy